does history really repeats itself?? i've been watching Ghost 2 very intensely without fail every week.. yes, i do not own a tv, but thanks to the WWW, i'm able to keep watching my Ghost 2 (a local 8tv production). in of the episode recently, the serial murderer actually writes "Sejarah Takkan Lupa" on the mirror after killing a victim. however, i never see that coming.. oops, it has truly repeats for those who knows my past.... lol....
been on my thought for past few days, what's the best way to protect a friend from getting hurt? even when the person thinks by hiding from him/her is the best way, i thought the best way to protect the person from being hurt is to speaking up....
i've had an experience where speaking up to one another is the best way to resolve any issues/conflicts between us. therefore, i'm actually really thankful for what the person has done.. if she has not done that or has not cherish the friendship between us, i thought i could lose her once and for all. bear in mind, this good friend of mine meant a lot to me... the person actually took the courage to talk to me of what has happened. she shares with me the emotions that is boiling inside her & how hurt she've been feeling due to what a certain party has says... therefore, tdy, i actually told a friend of mine, "if anything happens, talk to me." as for me, friendship reaches a level of maturity and worth to be cherished when ones dares to open up to discuss what has actually been going on no matter how hurt the news may be.. simply because, if the person finds out herself for what has been going on, you loses her forever... once, the person cares and concern for you very much, but now, the person may not even give a damn of what's happening to you anymore... need not to pretend of whatsoever because one could break the act very easily, especially when the person knows you so well... lol..
anyway, my concept of maturity in friendship is very simple... what's the use from hiding? what do you think when the person finds out the truth? have you ever consider the person's feelings? or are you just being selfish as a friend because we shares so much but you're hiding it ?? what is the meaning of friendship?? do you even cherish me or the friendship we had over the years in the first place?
**prepared / ready to walk **
almost gone,
jEn
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